Are carbs helping or hijacking you?

Let’s talk about carbs ... not because you need to cut them, but because how much and when you include them can make or break your energy, cravings, mood, and metabolism.

Most of the women I work with feel better, stronger, and more in control once they figure out their personal carb sweet spot. And spoiler: it’s usually not “as little as possible.” But it IS often more than the low carb people are used to and less than the Standard American Diet people are used to.

When you eat meals that are too carb-heavy -- especially fast-digesting ones without enough protein, fat, or fiber to anchor them -- you spike your blood sugar fast. Then your body releases insulin to shuttle that sugar into your cells. But if it overshoots (which happens often), your blood sugar drops hard. And suddenly you’re exhausted, cranky, and craving more food… even if you just ate. That crash is what pulls you back to the pantry again and again.


When undereating carbs becomes your whole personality, you run the risk of energy crashes, hunger and fullness cues getting wonky, thyroid slowing down, sleep thrown off and worsened moods and anxiety.


So ... Goldilocks.

Most women feel best starting with around 25–35 grams of net carbs per meal (that’s total carbs minus fiber). It’s not about precision or counting everything. It’s about balance and just being informed about how to put together balanced meals without obsession.

Here’s what that might look like in real food:

• 1 medium sweet potato

• 1/2 - 3/4 cup cooked rice or quinoa

• 2 small corn tortillas

• ¾ cup cooked lentils or beans

• 1 banana or a small apple + some squash

• 2 slices of sourdough

• 1 cup cooked, unsweetened oatmeal

• A protein smoothie that includes 1 cup fruit
  
  

Some women do best with carbs at two meals a day instead of three -- especially during fat loss phases, post-menopausal or if they’re more sedentary or insulin resistant. Others need more if they’re lifting heavy, nursing, or rebuilding from burnout. It's very individualized! But this range? It’s a strong starting point for feeling more stable and less snacky all day long.

Inside The Metabolic Edge, every single recipe in the meal guides is built with this balance in mind. The carb load, the fiber, the protein, the fat -- it’s all designed to keep your blood sugar steady, your metabolism supported, and your energy more predictable. And I update the meals every month, so there’s always something new to try without overthinking it.

You don’t have to obsess over numbers. You don’t have to eliminate carbs. And you definitely don’t have to keep wondering why you’re tired, foggy, or reaching for snacks when you’re supposedly “eating healthy.”

This stuff matters. And when your meals are working with you instead of against you, everything else gets easier too.

XO,
Tara

A letter to my future body

Last week was a tough one for me, health-wise. I uncovered some new layers ... things that had been dismissed by doctors for years, things I’d gaslit myself about, things I finally started piecing together in a way that actually made sense. It’s always a strange mix of relief and grief when that happens. I speak to women every day who are in that space ... who have a complicated relationship with their body, their health, food, trust in providers, trust in themselves. Women who have goals that won’t quit while watching themselves age in the mirror and feel it in their bones. It’s a quiet reckoning. A daily negotiation. And the emotional experience of it all? The undercurrent of shame, anger, fear, fatigue, and hope? It’s rarely talked about. So in an effort to do that (for myself but maybe for you too) I wrote this. A letter. A contract. A moment of clarity from the me who’s rebuilding to the version of me I’m becoming. I figured you might want to come along for the ride.


I'm fully aware that I've been pouring my heart out to you about every other blog post lately. HAHA! Will this last in between the recipe collections, tips, workouts, longevity and fat loss things? I don't know! I often don't know what I will write about until I sit down to write to you. Thanks for reading!

Dear Future Me,


This is a contract. A quiet promise. A love letter from the version of me who’s doing the unsexy, unseen, consistent work. The version who shows up ... even when she’s tired, even when the progress feels invisible. I want you to keep feeling good. Not drop to “barely functioning” good. Not “pushing through” good. I mean deeply well. Energized. Present. Clear. Capable. Light, in body AND spirit. So here’s what I’m vowing to do, for both of us: I promise to keep strength training regularly to keep us strong, supported, and resilient in every sense of the word. I promise to keep eating in a way that fuels us, not depletes us ... protein, fiber, real meals, barely any alcohol. I promise to keep moving daily ... walks, stretching, bike, shake, vibration plate, dance, sweat / sauna, shiver. I’ll keep the energy flowing. I promise to notice what matters: how we’re sleeping, how we’re thinking, how our skin and joints feel, how we respond to stress. I’ll keep paying attention to the data -- labs, symptoms, energy, mood -- without judgment (ok, with as little judgment as possible b/c we're still a little Type A). With curiosity. And without talking to ourselves like a jerk. I’ll ask: “What do you need today?” and then actually listen. I promise to do what works even when it’s boring, because repetition is healing and rhythm is medicine. I promise to do better at protecting my peace. I will stop saying yes when I mean no. I promise to let things be easier if that makes sense. I don’t need to earn rest. I don’t need to prove I’m strong by pretending I’m fine. And while I don’t always know why I seem to have to work 100 times harder for the same level of health most people have ... a regular period? WORK. To not be filled with water retention? WORK. To have optimal labs? SO MUCH WORK. And not just exercise or nutrition or sleep, but deeper, more complex protocols ... I’m beginning to believe that part of my purpose here is to walk through it all so I can show you it’s possible to heal. I’ve already done it with PCOS, prediabetes, insulin resistance and hypothyroidism. So now we’re onto something new. And let me be clear -- despite the new battle, I feel incredible. And I am so, so grateful for this level of health. This doesn’t undo any of the progress, the joy, the energy, or the strength. I still feel like the best version of me to date ... fully, vibrantly. This is just a new layer. Not a loss.

And you, future body? Here’s what I need from you: Be patient with me when I fumble. Respond with clarity-- through energy, sleep, mood, strength, and joy. Stay adaptable. Let us evolve. Keep reminding me that healing isn’t about doing more, it’s about doing what matters most.

We’re in this together. Let’s remain someone we’re proud to be ... not because we “achieved” anything, but because we cared enough to keep showing up.

Signed,
Me
(The version of you who’s always quietly wokring to rebuild something extraordinary)

If this letter stirred something in you, I want to invite you to write your own. It doesn’t have to be poetic or perfect ... just honest. A few sentences between you and the version of yourself you’re building. What do you want for her? What do you promise to give her? What do you hope she remembers? It’s not just reflective. It’s activating. Try it!

And if you want a space where this kind of honest, smart, no-shame work is the norm, The Metabolic Edge is that place. We focus on strength, metabolic health, energy, hormones, real science, strategy, and real life. The kind of health that holds up under stress and still makes room for joy. You can check it out here ... doors are open.

Overheard at my daughter's gymnastics meet

Two weeks ago, I was at my daughter’s gymnastics meet. Sitting on one of those painfully tiny bleachers, you know, the ones that make your hips go numb after five minutes. I was alternating b/w sipping on my coffee and smoothie, trying to keep one eye on the floor routine and the other casually eavesdropping on the group of moms behind me.

And wow, the spring diet chatter was in full bloom.

I’m talking:

"I just signed up for that new fasting app. It says I can’t eat past 6 PM, but honestly, I sneak a little peanut butter at night because, like, I’m not a robot."

"I’m back to keto for swimsuit season but I’m still having wine. So basically keto-ish?"

"I lost 12 pounds on Ozempic, but now I’m stuck, so I’m thinking of adding Orange Theory 4 or 5 days a week. I hate running, but I gotta speed up this weight loss."

I mean… I’ve heard versions of this every single year since I can remember. It hits 70 and sunny here in New York, and suddenly everyone’s panicking and trying to outsmart their metabolism.

And listen, once upon a time, I too was desperate to make my body (cells) respond. I wanted results that didn’t feel like pulling teeth. I wanted to feel strong, energized, like my body was actually working with me not against me.

But sitting there in the bleachers, all I could think was:
One, Magnolia is crushing it!
And two, no one ever told them what’s really going on under the hood.

So, I’m going to tell you.

Here’s what your body does when you start another diet.

Not what your calorie tracker says.
Not what Instagram influencers tell you.
What your biology actually does:

Your thyroid dials down, slowing energy output like your body’s trying to conserve battery life.

Leptin, your "burn fat" hormone, drops like a bad habit, telling your brain to pump the brakes on fat loss and start hoarding.

Your muscle breaks down first because muscle is expensive for your body to maintain while fat hangs around like an uninvited guest.

Your mitochondria, the little energy factories in your cells, go into low-power mode. They’re underfed, underpowered, and not exactly firing on all cylinders.

It’s not sabotage.
It’s survival.
Your body is trying to keep you alive.

And whether it’s Ozempic, Noom, Weight Watchers, or macro tracking (which is basically cutting calories with a fancier calculator), it’s the same plan with different packaging: eat less, burn more.

The problem? Your body adapts. Every single time.
It gets smarter. It gets stingier with energy.
And eventually, what used to work doesn’t (especially in perimenopause and menopause!)

Here’s what no one is telling you and why so many women feel stuck:

Your body’s leptin sensitivity needs to be rebuilt so fat loss can even happen again.
Your metabolic adaptations need to be reversed, not ignored, so your body feels safe to lose weight.
Your mitochondria need to be trained to make more energy, burn more fat, and actually keep you feeling good while doing it.

This is why fat loss feels harder the more you try. The diets and coaches are not helping you with the above. So that'll look like very little progress or just temporary progress.

And this right here is why I built TRANSFORM: Body + Mind, my 28-day metabolism course. Not to hand you another list of what to eat and how to move (let’s be honest, you could Google or ChatGPT that). But to guide you through a full and COMPREHENSIVE metabolic reset that fits within your full and busy life. The stuff no app or one-size-fits-all plan is covering.

I pour so much into this course and my clients! As such, I only run it a few times a year.


Doors open in 3 days. The waitlist peeps get a discount code.

I’m not saying you need to be on the list. But if you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, "Maybe I just need to try harder," this is your sign that it’s time to try a different approach. Not the same one with a different name.

Every round of TRANSFORM, women walk away with results that feel mind blowing. Not just because the scale moves (though they typically love that), but because the cravings that ruled their day are gone. The constant hunger quiets down. They notice so much more energy and better sleep and moods. Their lab work shows them aging backwards. And most importantly, the results last. We’re not into circling back to square one over here!


We’re moving forward. Will you be there with us too? Click here for more info.


XO,
Tara


P.S. If it's not in the cards for you this round, that's ok! You can always join us the next round in the Fall.

It all started with one shelf

A 1:1 client of mine (we’ll call her Erin because, well that's her name LOL) came to me a few months ago feeling tired, inflamed, and totally overwhelmed. She was eating “healthy,” working out a few times a week, doing all the right things... but still felt stuck. Puffy. Off.

One day shortly into our time together, she sent me a message that just said: “I opened my pantry today and wanted to cry. I didn’t even know where to start.”

Not because it was empty. But because it was full of stuff that didn’t support her anymore. Old diet snacks from past attempts. Protein bars that had 7g of protein, 28g of carbs and 23 ingredients. Things that made her bloated. A weird granola she bought because some influencer said it was clean. Crackers for her kids that she always ended up stress-eating. A graveyard of powders, teas, and expired intentions.

Here’s what we realized: the pantry wasn’t just a mess. It was a reflection of how long she’d been trying to “fix” her body instead of fuel it.

So we started with one shelf. She tossed what was expired or didn’t feel good. Then we added back a few simple things that did — like a protein source she actually liked, electrolytes to help her feel more energized and less snacky, high-fiber carbs that didn’t spike her blood sugar so dramatically, and one treat that felt fun, not forbidden.

That one shift changed how she started her mornings. It changed her blood sugar. Her cravings. Her mindset. Because your pantry isn’t just storage. It’s a system. And your metabolism is listening to what you stock on autopilot.

If you want a place to start today: pick one shelf. Remove anything that is expired. Put a sticker on anything you'd like to replace with a different choice once it's empty. Then add one thing to the panty or your grocery list that makes your future self proud. It doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to support where you’re going.

And if you want a go-to combo when time and patience are running low, here's one I love: lupini bean pasta (we have this one - 20g protein, 15g fiber and 6g net carbs per serving ... taste + texture is just like Banza to me), a simple jarred tomato sauce, and a bag of frozen veggies. Throw it all together in 10 minutes with some salt or spices + herbs, and maybe a sprinkle of cheese and you’ve got a balanced, metabolism-friendly meal that saves you from another night of DoorDash regret.

Tomorrow night inside The Metabolic Edge, I’m teaching a live workshop on exactly this. We’re doing a full pantry and kitchen spring clean-out together and building a metabolism-boosting setup from the inside out.

We’ll cover what to actually keep and what to toss, the why behind ingredients that mess with energy, hormones, and cravings, what I always keep stocked and what’s not worth the hype, and how to lower food decision fatigue so your habits can run themselves.

If you’re already inside, I’ll see you there! If not and this hit, you’re always welcome to come hang out. It's $59 / month, cancel anytime. More details + apply here.



Happy Spring declutter + refresh mode!



XO,
Tara

Perimenopause and menopause is chaos -- but you’re not crazy

Don’t worry, I'm saving the April Fools jokes for Instagram and my family. I’d never prank you about peri or menopause. That stuff’s already chaotic enough.

Hormones going rogue? That’s real.
Waking up at 3am wondering if your metabolism ghosted you? Also real.
So today, no jokes ... just gold.

Let’s break down what’s actually happening in your body (and what you can do to take your power back). Perimenopause and menopause isn’t the problem. But it is revealing everything your hormones used to hide.

Let’s talk about the midlife health mystery no one prepared us for:
You wake up puffy.
You feel more anxious than usual.
Your jeans fit weird.
You’re snappy for no reason.
You can’t remember why you walked into a room, but you can remember that you’ve already had it with everyone.
So you go to the doctor.
You get bloodwork.
They tell you, “Your labs are normal. Maybe try meditation or weight loss?”
Cue internal screaming.



Perimenopause / menopause (the former I have personal experience with myself!) can feel like chaos. Perimenopause is that in-between hormonal zone where your body is shifting ... but not consistently. Estrogen is erratic. Progesterone is MIA. Some days you feel great. Other days you're crying into your sleepy time tea.


Meanwhile, your mitochondria are like: “Ma’am, are we doing cardio or collapsing?”
And the medical world? It’s kind of collectively like: “Huh. That’s weird.”


What’s actually happening with your hormones? (skip if it starts feeling like biology class)


Perimenopause = hormone chaos. Estrogen and progesterone don’t just drop ... they fluctuate wildly. You can go from normal levels to postmenopausal lows and back again… in the same week. That’s why some days you feel amazing, and others you feel like a puffy rage monster in a brain fog.


Progesterone drops first. It’s your calming, balancing hormone -- and when it goes, anxiety, irritability, sleep issues, and PMS-like symptoms take the wheel. This is often the first sign of perimenopause.


Estrogen becomes unpredictable. Sometimes too low (cue hot flashes, dryness, mood swings), sometimes too high (hello bloating, heavy periods, breast tenderness). The rollercoaster makes your brain and body feel very confused.


Testosterone quietly declines. It doesn’t crash like estrogen or progesterone,  but it steadily drops, which impacts muscle mass, libido, confidence, motivation, and strength. You may not notice it right away, but over time you feel… flatter. Less drive. Less “you.”


Menopause = hormone flatline. Once you’ve gone 12 months without a period, estrogen and progesterone reach consistently low levels. Your body can function without them,  but not optimally unless you support your system.


Post-menopause, your adrenal glands and fat tissue take over. They produce small amounts of estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone. But if you're stressed, inflamed, or depleted? That backup system gets overwhelmed fast. (This is one reason managing stress and building resilience becomes non-negotiable.)


I love analogies -- Think of estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone like a group of expert chefs running your body’s kitchen. In perimenopause, the chefs start showing up late, forgetting the recipes, and throwing cayenne into the pancake batter. In menopause, they retire ... and now the interns (your adrenals and fat cells) are trying to keep the restaurant open with half the ingredients and no supervision. It’s possible, but you’ll need better systems, smarter nutrition, and a lot more support.


Here’s the real plot twist:



Perimenopause and menopause are often blamed for too much (“It’s just your hormones. Good luck!”) AND not blamed for enough (“Your labs are fine. It’s probably stress or aging.”). But the truth is that yes, your hormones are shifting. But also… your youthful hormones were masking metabolic chaos for years:

Undereating.
Over-stressing.
Lack of muscle.
Blood sugar roller coasters.
Sleep deprivation.
Nutrient depletion.


And now? It’s all showing.


What’s actually happening to your mitochondria?


Estrogen drops → energy production drops
Estrogen helps your mitochondria function. With less of it, energy tanks and oxidative stress climbs.

Inflammation creeps in
Hormonal chaos = cellular inflammation = slow repair + slower metabolism

Insulin sensitivity tanks
Your cells stop responding well to carbs, and blood sugar management gets harder

You lose lean mass (and mitochondria with it)
Muscle = mitochondria. Muscle loss = lower metabolic capacity.

Cortisol spikes, but recovery lags
You’re more stressed, more easily depleted, and less resilient.

Sleep suffers → mitochondria suffer
Night wakings = poor recovery = higher inflammation

Your nutrient needs skyrocket
Your cells need more B vitamins, magnesium, antioxidants, protein, and co-factors ... just to function normally.



What actually helps (and what I teach + guide you through in The Metabolic Edge):

• Short, metabolism-supportive strength training

• Blood sugar balance with protein-forward, satisfying meals

• Nervous system regulation (real tools that work in mom-life and other life chaos)

• Strategic supplements that support mitochondrial + hormonal health

• Smarter recovery (because rest is now mandatory, not optional)

• Real-life strategies that work in 2025, not 1998

Cat's out of the bag. Coming soon: The Metabolic Edge



This is exactly why I created The Metabolic Edge -- my brand-new signature membership where we rebuild your metabolism, energy, and resilience from the root up.


It’s for women in. their 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond navigating perimenopause, menopause, body composition and / or health struggles who want real strength, better brain power, more joy, and less dreaming of naps


Doors open VERY SOON. Keep an eye out.
Because you’re not broken. You’re just out of cellular alignment ... and we can fix that.


Stay tuned. This is going to change everything.

XO,
Tara

✉️ Write Your Future: A Letter to Tomorrow's You

A letter to your future self

It’s January 7th, 2025. Right now, you’re standing on the edge of possibility. The choices you make this month - this week - can shape the entire year ahead. Truth is, we don't need a January for that. It's true of every month. Every week. But we have the magic of a blank year ahead right now. So, let’s pause and imagine.

What if you could write a letter to the future you at the end of 2025? What would you want her (or him) to know? Let’s begin.



Dear Future Me,

I hope you’re proud of everything we’ve accomplished this year in 2025. It wasn’t about being perfect, it was about deciding to show up. I’m grateful we committed to:

• Prioritizing energy, strength, and clarity every single day.

• Fueling our body with food that made us feel unstoppable.

• Moving with purpose and loving the process.

• Finding time for laughter, connection, learning and rest.

This year, we didn’t wait for the perfect moment to start. We took action when things felt messy and busy, and we stayed consistent even when it wasn’t convenient. And you know what? It worked.

Thank you for taking the first step. It’s what changed everything.

Love,
The You Who Decided

Real talk:

Nine years ago, I found myself at a crossroads. I had just been told I was prediabetic while newly pregnant with our son. After years of infertility, undiagnosed PCOS, insulin resistance, and hypothyroidism, my body felt drained, weak, and far from what I knew it could be, despite working out and “eating healthy.”

That diagnosis was my turning point. I realized that waiting for someone else to give me permission or the perfect plan and time wasn’t an option. I bought a glucometer, started tracking my blood sugar, and made small changes like adjusting my breakfast to focus on protein and fiber, tweaking my workouts to include more strength training, and building from there.

The changes were gradual, but they built momentum. My energy improved. I felt less moody. My body started to respond, and my lab work reflected the progress I was making. Each small step reinforced my commitment, and before I knew it, I was living a life that felt aligned, energized, and strong. In my 40s now, I feel younger and more powerful than I did in my 20s or 30s. It's hard to describe what it feels like ... I'd say a lightness and electrifying buzzing, of sorts. I know in my heart that you deserve to feel it too.

That’s why I believe so deeply in taking the first step ... even when it feels imperfect. Because I’ve been there, and I’ve seen what’s possible.

Special Note for TRANSFORM Graduates:

For those of you in The After Party, I can’t wait to continue this journey together. This year, we’ll be diving even deeper with fresh tools, inspiration, guest speakers and guidance to take everything to the next level.

If you’re a TRANSFORM graduate but no longer in The After Party, reply to this email for a special link to rejoin. Trust me, you won’t want to miss what we’ve planned for 2025.

What would your letter say? Try this exercise out as a journal entry today and let me know how it goes. Tomorrow, the doors to TRANSFORM: Body + Mind officially open. If you’re ready to take that first step and make 2025 your strongest, healthiest, most vibrant year yet, I’d love to have you join me.

Your first step starts tomorrow - get ready!

With endless possibility,
Tara