Fat loss: A learning series

You're a real catch... and I appreciate the heck out of you.

Just wrapped up another super-exciting launch at Tara Allen Health. One thing I typically do when I'm in 'launch mode' for that one week, several times a year is I tend to do more live videos on social media. My goals with this are 1, to share more context about what I do in the course and why I do it so differently. 2, I'm more present for those who have questions. And 3, I want to make sure that even if you and I never get to work together, you still have lots of actionable tips to implement on your own. If you're a TRANSFORM alum, these lives might serve as good reminders for you as well. ;-)



But maybe you missed them? So I wanted to drop them here in a blog this week. Feel free to select just the topics that sound interesting to you or listen to them all in order as a learning series. You don't need to stare at my face! Haha. Pop in some headphones and take me along on a walk, while you're doing housework or even just listen on your commute.



Only thing is ... all the talk about enrollment for TRANSFORM: Body + Mind being open is no longer applicable. Cart closed last week and we actually began yesterday. The next round will be in January though so don't feel like you missed out. You can now hop on the waitlist for that round if you'd like.



Ok, here we go ...


Episode 1. Is there more to the fat loss story than "eat less, exercise more"?

Episode 2. 6 things you're doing for weight loss that are backfiring

Episode 3. Fat loss goal of less than 10 lbs? Or want to “tone up”? Discussing 8 things specific to YOUR goals to keep in mind.

Episode 4. Fat loss goal of 10 lbs or more? Sharing 7 tips specific for you.

Episode 5. 7 reasons you’re giving yourself cravings and what to do about it.

Episode 6. The biggest mistake the weight loss industry is still making!


Hope this helps!


XO,
Tara

Self Care or Self Indulgence?

We need to put our oxygen mask on first (like on a plane). I know I know but ...

How come it often feels self indulgent (not in a good way) to take care of ourselves?




I just started reading a new parenting book in my ongoing quest to feel like I have even a little bit of a clue about how to perform the most important role I have in this life. :-P I had a lightbulb moment in the introduction when the author was talking about the importance of self care as a parent.



She said, "Imagine this: You're rafting down a river with your family, when a section of whitewater rapids throws you into the water. There's no time for panic -- you've got to hustle. Your kids need you in the boat; besides, it's cold and dangerous in the water! The sooner you get back onto the raft, the better. You reach out your hand so the rafting guide can pull you back on board. Or do you? As parents, when something throws us off balance, we have a strange tendency to resist help that gets us back on track. It's as if we're so concerned about our kids staying on the boat that we don't take the hand that's offered to us. Instead we stay in the river, barely treading water behind the raft, which will do nothing to help our kids dodge the next set of rapids downstream."



Brilliant description, isn't it? We're so concerned that THEY (kids, partner, whoever) have enough to eat, but then think nothing of skipping meals earlier in the day and wonder why we're so cranky and ravenous at night. We think doing our best means doing the most and vow to "start over next week" with the goals we have for ourselves. We spend money like water on things we decide will make their lives easier / better, but feel guilty investing in something that will make us an entirely better person with confidence, health, and energy. Or heck, even the free stuff (walks, morning sun, exercise, cooking food we already have) gets moved to the back-burner (pun intended) because if it isn't "I don't have the money" then it becomes "I don't have the time".



We're really good at keeping the kids on the raft but somehow seem to think that we don't need to be on the raft alongside them.



Problem is, if we raise our children this way they will become adults who one day think they don't have the right to allow the guide to help them back onto the raft alongside their loved ones. Our JOB as caregivers -- if you are a caregiver -- is to coach them through being a kid but also being an adult as that's where they will be spending most of their years.



It's not self-indulgent to give yourself the same care + attention you would like to see your children (or any loved ones) give to themselves one day.



Suggestion. Pick ONE thing off the list below and schedule it into your week THIS week. Pick whatever stands out and think of this email as your sign to make it happen.

• Schedule that doctor appointment, lab work, chiropractor consult

• Set aside a little time to get in a workout. Maybe it's strength. Maybe it's some zone 2 cardio. Maybe it's been awhile since you've done any kind of HIIT. Whatcha need most? Do it.

• Has sleep gotten away from you? It's easy (but oh so hard) to burn the candle at both ends in the Summer when days are longer. Set a bedtime and wake time and make sure the math works out for you to get enough zzzzs this week.

• Take 5 minutes to stand outside in the sun, bare feet on the Earth for a quick recharge.

• If you're feeling hopeless about some kind of goal you have, set aside some time to learn more about it and plan a small action step. Financials overwhelming? Book an appt. with a financial advisor. Parenting feeling extra hard? You might like the new book I just started -- The Essential Guide to Raising Complex Kids by Elaine Taylor-Klaus. Fat loss or health goals feeling impossible? Head over to my instagram page for some more free resources or hop on the waitlist for the September round of TRANSFORM: Body + Mind (less than 6 days left to get on the waitlist!). Or, find out more about 1:1 coaching here. In each option, I gotcha covered in the fat loss / body / health departments. ;-)

• Mind feeling chaotic? My favorite 1-2 punch for that is 1) declutter something (even just a drawer helps) and 2) spend 10 minutes on a hobby or planning something. Chaos can be from a cluttered environment or even feeling there's so much of life's hard stuff present in your life without enough of life's fun. Adding in that fun (hobbies, social plans, plan a trip, date night).

• No idea which to pick? Just do a few rounds of 4-7-8 breathing right now. Breathe in for a count of 4, hold for a count of 7 and exhale for a count of 8. Repeat a few times. It's a calm-inducing breath pattern and excellent for reducing stress, anxiety, and helping with sleep.

• In a rut? Shake something up! Cook a new meal this week. Or just serve lunch or snack to your kids in a muffin tray for funsies. Drink your seltzer out of a champagne glass. Keep the TV off tonight and the phone down -- find something else to do. Google a few jokes and text them to your besties. Start an unprovoked water balloon fight with your kids, partner or friend (I suggest making sure they're ok getting wet first ... unless you're more adventurous than me. Haha!)

September is around the corner. New month and new season (soon). Perfect chance to re-commit to taking action on the things that you KNOW will improve your life ... and spill out and onto the lives of your loved ones. Wrapping up the year feeling better and entering 2024 with newfound momentum just hits different.



XO,
Tara

This ONE question changes everything!

Ever find it hard to know when to push forward vs. when to pull back with your health goals?

Some people are so determined to keep exercise in, they feel too guilty taking rest days or workout even when they have a fever or lung congestion.


Some people are all about feeling good in the moment that they seemingly choose whatever fits their mood. Don't feel like working out today? They don't. But then their moods aren't great on a whole and their goals are left unmet.


How do we take the best from each of these 2 opposites and allow it to propel us towards whatever health or body goals we have?


By continually asking ourselves ONE simple question.


Ready for it?


"What's ultimately best for me right now?"


That answer will never steer you wrong IF:
1) You understand enough about your physiology + metabolism to make that call and
2) You're honest with yourself


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will be to rest when you have a fever or got 2 hours of broken sleep last night ...because the baby.


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will mean you workout or at least go for a nice walk outside even when you're not in the mood or motivated because that choice will actually help with moods and motivation in the future.


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will usually be that you eat in a way that's balanced and nourishing for your body but sometimes will be that you enjoy some soul food simply for the taste, nostalgia, memory or experience.


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will tell you to go to bed at a decent time because one Netflix episode is better than 8 in a row as evidenced by the fact that less sleep makes you cranky, less patient with your kids, and dials up your cravings and hunger.


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will not steer you wrong.


Try it on for size! I dare ya. ;-)


XO,
Tara


P.S. If you're ready for a change that you can't fail at and would like to work with me, here are a few options:


TRANSFORM: Body + Mind is my 28-day metabolism-boosting course. I recommend starting here for more people with fat loss, muscle-building or "toning up" goals. The next round (and last round of 2023) will be in September. Hop on the waitlist to reserve your spot as last September we filled up!


TRANSFORM: 1:1 is my newly revamped 1-on-1 coaching program and is best for those who have been through the 28-day course and are ready to take things up a notch or those who haven't completed the course but know themselves / their situation make it so 1-on-1 with lots of customization and accountability is really the better option. Spots are very limited but clients graduate out of their program fairly often, opening up new spots. Fill out the form and I'll be in touch to discuss if it's the right fit for you, how it works, and what future availability looks like.

So you want to work out from home?

Minimalist Home Gym?

We went from working out at the gym 3.5 years ago to it being shut down in the middle of March 2020. We had a few things at home -- I used to workout from home when my husband travelled for work and it was just the kids and I. But we did NOT have a lot and have purposely decided to keep things pretty light (no pun intended) even though we've been solely working out from home now for all this time. We could always head back to the gym and we certainly will one day (I miss the heck out of the barbells and heavier weights!) but for now we're in this nice routine and saving a bit of time with it. I've also come to really enjoy the kids hanging around as I workout. They used to just know I went super early to the gym and came home. Now they see me plan my workouts, challenge myself, and they like to join me too!




I'm asked fairly often on instagram (where I share my workouts often on my feed but even more up in stories) if I'm doing workouts at the gym and just showing home workout options for people. It seems that many people are surprised that one could accomplish what they need to without tons of equipment. But you can!  And of course this is one of the things we dive deep into in week 2 (fitness week) of TRANSFORM: Body + Mind -- my 28-day metabolism-boosting course. So if you've taken that course or you will be joining us in September, you'll know exactly how to make it work with even less equipment.




You could start with body weight, use things around the house, check out Craigslist or Facebook Marketeplace for people getting rid of exercise equipment for free or cheap. That being said, if you'd like to build a small, minimalist-type home gym like we have to reach your goals a bit better, here's what I recommend you consider getting:



1) A pair of adjustable dumbbells. While they are pricier than 1 standard pair of dumbbells, adjustable dumbbells are really many-in-one. Ours were a gift from a friend and have no brand name on them, but they seem very similar to these.



2) Straight, long resistance bands. These can be used for all kinds of exercises. These are the ones I have. Grab an empty toilet paper roll too so you can make your own 'cable machine' like I talk about in this post.



3) Thick, loop resistance bands for some spicy leg work! If you follow my workouts at all you'll see I use them ALLLLL the time. They stay in place well and don't flip or slide. The ones I use are from a brand that no longer exists but they're almost identical to these ones.



4) A yoga mat ... and a little corner of your home that you can dedicate to fitness, if possible. If not possible, then a place you can convert into a fitness area within a couple of minutes so it doesn't feel like a hurdle to gettin' 'er done. I have no specific yoga mat recommendations ... you should be able to find one pretty easily with a quick search.



That's a pretty awesome start! You can get a lot done and make a lot of progress on metabolism / muscle-building / "toning up" / fat loss goals with those items.



Happy August,
Tara

Healthify My Summer: A Guide

We're going away soon.

Have you been following along up in Instagram stories? I've been sharing some BTS of my crazy ordering / packing / planning for this road trip. And as I've been doing that -- and getting excited about some other Summer fun we have planned like concerts, beach days, baseball games, BBQs, outdoor movies -- I decided to make a guide in case you have some of those things on the calendar for the rest of this Summer too.



Check out THIS GUIDE and then make it YOURS. Follow the suggestions that work for you and ignore the ones that don't. Summer is meant to be fun and we don't need to feel like garbage or slip away from our goals on the other side of those memories.



Summer on,
Tara





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5 Unusual Tips for Fat Loss NOW

So you wanna lose some excess body fat?

(If you don't want to "lose weight" or "tone up" at all, then you might wanna skip this one and come party with us again next week.)




Summer seems to be the time when the planners are wishing their weight loss plan worked better ... or that the results stayed and the procrastinators are ready to do some crazy sh*t just to feel a little more confident this season in their shorts. As such, Summer happens to be a time when a lot of metabolic damage is done. Every 1200 calorie diet, Optavia, diet pills, daily bootcamp classes or running are all risk factors that unfortunately can lead to chronic disease and / or autoimmunity years and decades in the future ... plus weight loss resistance which is the exact opposite of what the goal was.



Luckily, we know more now and we can evolve our strategies accordingly (even though most people will be continuing to use misinformed and outdated tactics for way longer than I'd like to even imagine).



Fat loss happens best when we work within what we know to be optimal fat loss conditions. This means we're aiming to lose excess body fat but not more (not muscle mass or bone...) so it requires a specific pace. Go too fast and you're losing weight for sure, but not the kinda weight you want to be losing. Here are some tips:




1) Eat more at mealtimes. I know if you want to lose weight, you think a 350 calorie meal is superior to a 600 calorie meal. I'm not a fan of counting calories but to more easily paint this picture, stay with me here. If you eat the 350-calorie meals, 1 of 2 things will happen -- 1, you'll end up being so hungry later that night, on the weekend, on holidays, or vacations that you'll feel yourself losing control around food and overeating. Or if you're so darn stubborn and manage not to ever overeat, your metabolic rate will drop in order to compensate. This means your thyroid will probably become sluggish, you might feel colder, weak, fatigued, low libido, and you will begin gaining weight with much less calories than you used to. Your goal here is to eat meals big enough and balanced enough that they keep you nice and satiated for at least 4 hours.



2) Be mindful of blood sugar. Yes, energy in energy out matters for weight loss. Also true ... not all weight lost is the same. If you want to maximize FAT loss, you need to make sure you are not riding the blood sugar rollercoaster all day everyday. This means you eat fat, fiber and protein at every single meal. It means you keep carb intake moderate. It means you understand that it's best to not eat carbs alone (no bananas or coffee with sugar on your way out the door). It also means that you understand we have an upper limit to what we can use before it gets stored away as fat. Keep carbohydrate-containing meals to 25-35g net carbs if you're a woman (35-50g net carbs for most men). More than that and you'll likely be storing the extra as fat. A "healthy" acai bowl or green juice can often contain 50-100+ grams of carbs / sugar! "Healthy" can be deceiving. 



3) Pick up weights. Weightlifting burns more calories than cardio. "What Tara? I always heard it's the opposite!" Well yes, if you're looking at it in a short-sighted way. Cardio tends to burn more calories in that one exercise session compared to a similar length session of weightlifting. However, the extra calorie burn stops when you stop moving with cardio. Yet when you increase your muscle mass by strength training, your metabolic rate for THE ENTIRE DAY, NIGHT, AND EVEN REST DAYS is elevated. Keep your cardio in because you love your lungs and heart and being alive. But it's not a great exercise focus for fat loss goals. Strength training is.



4) Move your body. Walking isn't your exercise, but hopefully it's a different part of your days! We need our exercise (cardio, strength) and then we need our active lifestyle too (walking, gardening, dancing, yoga, playing tag with the kids or grandkids, standing while watching that live music or game, carrying groceries in..) By making the non-exercise parts of your day more active, you will notice a WAY bigger boost in your metabolic rate. 



5) Daily sunshine and grounding. When we have excess body fat stored up in an amount that's more than optimal health levels and want to do something about that, we need to be thinking about improving our energy usage. We lose fat when we use it up. We use it up when better and more quickly when the batteries of our cells -- our mitochondria -- are abundant and in great working order. Heat and cold exposure help with this, so there's a bonus tip. ;-P But also getting your skin to come in contact with the Earth everyday. Ideally for nice chunks of time as we're really evolved to be outdoors mostly, but anything is better than nothing! If you're currently inside all day, you can start by committing to 5 minutes outdoors, standing in the grass barefoot and go up from there. This "charges" your cell's batteries in a way that allows them to utilize more energy / fuel / food. Meaning, this will improve your metabolic health and help with fat loss efforts.



And a bonus bonus one that didn't make the list because it's not unusual is .... SLEEP. It's arguably the mosts important as it will influence all the rest.



Which of these are you already doing? Which will you be focusing on? Hope you found this helpful! Please note ... this is 1 tiny sliver of the types of things we discuss in much greater detail in my 28-day metabolism-boosting course, TRANSFORM: Body + Mind. The next round starts in September. If you're interested in learning more, check out this link and hop on the waitlist for any special offers and a discount code when the cart opens.



XO,
Tara

Cholesterol / lipid results are in!

My cholesterol (lipid) results came back and we have to talk.

Have you been following along on instagram stories? I've been sharing a ton about my latest bloodwork, what labs I asked the doctor to order and why, my results and what I'm making of it all. It's been a regular party! HAHA.



One thing I asked the doc for was an extended lipid panel. The standard lipid panel just doesn't tell much of a story. My total cholesterol, LDL, HDL and triglycerides came back first and they were all great.


Then the "special" lipid panel results came in.


I really wanted to see my Apo B as that is a better indicator of risk of heart disease and atherosclerosis than LDL. My Apo B was good (65). But this is one of those things that can always be better, as far as I'm concerned. So I'd like to work on that even though it's "normal" and "very good".


LP(a) was one I was very curious about as it's the one that's not quite as modifiable with lifestyle and is more genetic. I have a very strong family history of hypercholesterolemia, so I wasn't sure what to expect here. Mine was very good at <10. If it wasn't, I'd really drill down on the other aspects of my lipids that I could improve to help offset this. Also, I would potentially consider medication if I believed it was the lesser of the evils here. But it's low. Great!



But I also asked to see particle size. My small, dense LDL particles are elevated. This isn't cholesterol itself but the little carrier molecules that transport cholesterol around. Cholesterol isn't water soluble, so it needs something that IS to carry it around our body. Lipoproteins it is! These are water soluble on the outside, so they can move around our bloodstream but they can hold cholesterol inside of it. Think of them like little Uber drivers for our cholesterol. LDL + HDL stand for low density lipoproteins and high density lipoproteins. They are lipoproteins and these actually seem to matter a lot more than the actual cholesterol contents inside of them when it comes to risk factors. So while I don't have a lot of LDL, I do have too many of the troublesome kind. Small, dense LDL particles are the ones that tend to lodge themselves into our blood vessel lining and cause trouble. 



As with everything, I plan to take in all the information, formulate a plan, carry it out and retest in a bunch of months to see how my plan is working. Here's my plan:

1. I am still having my typical breakfast of 1 full egg with the egg yolk plus a cup of egg whites and all my veggies and other stuff because I don't eat much cholesterol at all and this is pretty much my only source ... plus (and most importantly) when we test for cholesterol we're getting information about what our body is making and degrading, not what we took in through food. So lowering cholesterol through my food intake isn't part of the plan.

2. I just switched from cooking my breakfast eggs in coconut oil to cooking in another oil instead (olive, avocado). This is because coconut oil is one of the only plant sources of saturated fat and it has quite a lot per serving! I don't take in a lot of saturated fat otherwise, though I do believe some is important. High saturated fat intake does affect the amount / types of lipids we make. I won't avoid coconut oil altogether or anything, just removing it from my daily breakfast will be a great experiment.

3. I will continue to monitor my blood sugar. Blood sugar issues can actually cause 3 problems here. For one, elevated blood sugar will raise triglycerides, LDL and Apo B. It can interfere with us using up / degrading of the cholesterol we have already made. And then, it can cause damage to the blood vessel lining which then attracts these harmful lipid particles in order to use them as a bandaid of sorts and spackle up the damage. This is great to prevent bleeding out in the moment but eventually leads to build up, plaque, blockages, and things like heart attacks or strokes. My recent blood work showed my fasting insulin is very low (yay ... no insulin resistance currently) and my blood sugar was fine (not prediabetic) but higher than I've gotten it down to before and higher than I'd like it to be. Since there is no insulin resistance, I suspect stress to be the cause currently. So, I'll be doing all the things I mentioned in last week's newsletter for that. I will also make sure I don't drop my carbs too low as that can increase stress and potentially make my blood sugar worse in this case! This is why it's so important to get fasting insulin done so we can play detective here. Finally, I will monitor my blood sugar sporadically with finger pricks as I do but also plan to get another continuous glucose monitor soon and keep it on for a few weeks for more data.

Things I'm already doing that should help and I plan to continue to do:

• NO smoking

• Very little alcohol intake

• Sleep

• Sunshine

• Grounding

• Exercise

• Maintain healthy body composition

• Maintain healthy blood pressure (big deal with lipids as poor lipids plus high blood pressure encourages more plaque build up)

• Red light therapy

Some of the above helps us rebalance our lipids in a more healthful way. Some of the above is to help protect blood vessel lining. We don't just want healthy lipids, but also healthy blood vessel linings so as to not need to use the cholesterol to "spackle" up the damage and then be left with plaque. Sunshine and grounding, for example, each help us to restructure some of the water in our body into 4th phase water -- a gel-like substance that lays down like a protective layer over our blood vessels and takes some of the damage we accumulate through -- life. Getting enough sun and plenty of contact with the Earth (standing barefoot in the grass, sand, swimming in an ocean or lake, etc.) are 2 ways we can help our bodies create and maintain that protective layer. 



So, that's the plan! And I hope that by sharing this long and nerdy story with you, it might help you know what to ask your doctor to test for and / or formulate your own plan. Of course I'm happy to help you if you need it! TRANSFORM: Body + Mind is my 28-day metabolism-boosting and health optimization course and TRANSFORM: 1:1 is my 1-on-1 coaching program where we dive much deeper and also discuss your individual needs, including lab work.



XO,
Tara

Parasympathetic-y things

I recently had some bloodwork done.

And if you hang out with me up in Instagram stories, you know I've been sharing my results with you little-by-little. A few of the results that are considered "normal" stood out to me. Unfortunately the references ranges aren't always complete enough to lead us towards optimal health. So while overall I was very happy with my lab results (and told by the doctor that everything was great), in typical Tara fashion, I'm putting together a plan with the goal to optimize even more.



You'll have to keep watching stories for more results but in general, a few things put together paint a picture that my stress hormones seem to be dysregulated and my nervous system could use a little TLC. This is something I'm pretty familiar with. I was once told by my naturopath that my cortisol levels were higher than she's ever seen in ANYone. Yikes. I was able to get that down but with a whole lotta effort. I don't know my cortisol levels yet -- blood tests are almost worthless for cortisol so I didn't request it from my GP and decided instead to pay out of pocket for another DUTCH test soon. But I'm not planning on waiting to make changes.



My default personality is Type A. I consider myself a recovering people pleaser. I wake up ready to take the day and have tons of energy until it's time to crash at night. I enjoy planning for the future and find myself worrying too much. Basically, I am naturally a high energy kinda person. This means that if I'm not super intentional, I'll slip back there and be in need of a little nervous system re-balancing. It's been particularly stressful for some time now -- much of which I don't share as it's not always my story to share. And while the things I need to be implementing are often so amazing (fun / relaxing), I actually find it hard to make sure I keep them in. I'm making a list (of course I am) -- a parasympathetic-y menu of options if you will and I figured I'd share with you in case you find it helpful. I am not going to do all of the following and this isn't a To Do list where everything needs to get checked off. That would be counter-productive here! Rather, I will be spending at least 10 minutes a day to focus on relaxing my nervous system and when I'm not sure what to do, I'll pick from this list.



Important to note: if you make your own list it will likely have different things on it as we won't think the same things are interesting / relaxing.

Parasympathetic Menu of Ideas

• bath and a book

• mess with the guitar

• listen to music / sing / hum

• yoga / stretch

• massage or self massage

• sauna

• calming breathwork

• meditation / guided meditation (calm app)

• read out in the sun

• ashwagandha, L-theanine if / when needed

• write poetry

• draw or paint

• nature walk

• lay on acupressure mat

• few extra minutes of sleep

• grounding

• change into comfy clothes

• slide fingertips over my lips (they have special parasympathetic fibers)

• visualization (typically do this nightly before falling asleep)

• less caffeine (already started this a few days ago)

• keep overnight fasts to 12 -14 hours (not more) most days

• cold exposure (temporarily sympathetic but overall favors mostly parasympathetic)

• enough rest days / active recovery days (took 2 of these over the weekend!)

• be mindful that carb intake isn't too low (or too high -- both can increase stress response)

• make plans with friends

It's all connected! Nervous system regulation will show up in various ways in our lab work, mental state, health and / or body goals. There's a reason we spend a whole week on stress, sleep, hormones, and longevity practices in TRANSFORM: Body + Mind! It really cannot be ignored if we care about our outcomes. And if we have a good understanding of our body and metabolism we pick up on when things need to be tweaked ... and we tweak! 



Do you need to include more time out of "fight or flight" (sympathetic) and in "rest and digest" (parasympathetic)? Maybe you can make your own version of this parasympathetic menu of options and pull from it daily alongside me. :-) If you do, I'd love to hear about it!



XO,
Tara

Sliding into my 40s

I turn 40 in 4 days.

And while milestone birthdays seem to bring up a lot of 'shtuff' for a lot of people, I'm not bothered by it at all! I mean, maybe ask me next week? Haha.



But for real ... I think the reason is I don't see aging as a linear thing. I don't think we all put 365 days of mileage on our bodies every year. Some years its 1000 days-worth (IVF and new mama years come to mind there), but other years it might be negative 50 days' of mileage because we're taking great care of ourselves.



So yeah, I'm entering a new decade and it's kinda weird to think I'll never be 30-something again, but I get to be 40-something for the first time and that's pretty cool too -- like a new level is being unlocked for me.



So here are some random aging thoughts and things I figured I'd share with you in case you, too, are getting older. :-P



I recently went to a G.P. It's been a while(!) but I have been seeing other specialists at least in the meantime ... gyno, dermatologist for full body scans, naturopath and lab testing, and I check my own blood sugar and blood pressure often at home. I wanted to establish care and request a bunch of new lab work, so that was the main reason for the visit. He was going to order some labs, but not nearly as complete of a picture as I wanted so here is most of what I asked for (all I can think of off the top of my head):


CBC
CMP
Fasting insulin
Full thyroid panel (FULL ... I want the whole story and most thyroid testing doesn't cut it)
Inflammatory markers (like homocysteine, CRP, uric acid)
Full lipid panel (FULL ... same deal. I want the important stuff and most lipid testing doesn't include the most important stuff. I want particle information, ApoB, lp(a))
Vitamin D


Fasting insulin is the only result that's back so far and it was 4.2. The reference range says 2.2 to 24.9 is "normal" but that's BOGUS as I'd be all over a fasting insulin level above 8 or 10 and would even make some tweaks if it was above 6. An elevated fasting insulin level is an earlier sign of insulin resistance while blood sugar changes (like glucose tolerance test, fasting glucose, or HgBA1c) are late signs. I like early signs! Especially because this is an achilles heel of mine. I used to have PCOS, prediabetes and insulin resistance. It takes EFFORT to have a low fasting insulin level but it's that important to me because of the way it impacts body composition, mood, energy levels, sleep, all chronic disease, cognitive decline, hormones, aging, and pretty much ev-er-y-thing.



I'll be ordering some others like cortisol and complete hormone testing through InsideTracker. Stay tuned. I will be sharing a discount code you can use if I'm happy with my experience with them.



I will be getting a breast sonogram in the coming months. It'll be my second. I have a very significant history of breast cancer in my family (and still believe lifestyle matters most, but genes do play a roll of course). I have dense breasts and like the greater visibility of sonograms. Thermography will likely be in my future too, but only in conjunction with something else like a sono. Thermography results in many false positives so I like a multifaceted approach. You do you. I'm just sharing what I'm doing. ;-)



I have no real risk factors for cardiovascular disease, but it's something I'm still mindful of. I plan on getting a Cleerly Scan by age 45 to check for soft plaques. Calcium scores can be 0 even as soft plaques are building, so I'd like to get a baseline within a handful of years. If my ApoB or lp(a) are elevated, I'll likely bump that up. It's not covered by insurance and is pretty pricey. Important aside: I'm also always thinking about radiation exposure across a year's time or so and keep that in mind when I make decisions, understanding that sometimes emergencies and urgent situations arise which may require radiation-emitting diagnostics.



Besides uber-medical things ...



For skin health, I'm dry brushing, sweating often, utilizing cold exposure, facial cupping, moisturizing and purchased Frownies but have still not used them. Maybe it'll be a nice way to ease into my 40s in a few days ... by scaring my husband as I climb into bed with those things on my face. HAHA. I'm getting some unblocked sun each day, but avoiding burns with mid-day shade, hats, clothes, or mineral-based sunscreen. And recently I started adding glycine (an amino acid) supplements into my routine. As a vegetarian, I'm not getting nearly enough of it and it's needed for so many important things like glutathione (our master anti-oxidant) production. Collagen is pretty late on its list of importance so if I'm not taking in enough, collagen will breakdown even faster than it does just from getting older. Hence, the new supplement for me. If you're an omnivore, there's a pretty good chance you don't need this.


I have not done anything cosmetic like fillers or Botox and while I always reserve the right to change my mind, it's not something I see myself doing anytime soon. Again, personal preference. No judgment. We're all out here just trying to keep curating our lives and priorities. 


When it comes to aging, I believe strongly that it's an inside-out situation. I prefer to focus on doing as little damage as I reasonably can to my cells (through nutrition, exercise, lifestyle choices), then reversing damage when possible (through sleep, sweating, having a 12+ hour overnight fast, etc.). 



And I tend to believe any kind of "graceful aging" we look up to is 90% mindset. If we think it's normal to be unhealthy, cranky, and lackluster at a certain age, we might miss those as being red flags and think there's nothing that can be done. Am I "middle-aged" or am I just getting started? No one can determine that for me except for me! 



I like to be playful, to learn, to laugh, travel, help others, hang with people I love, to try new hobbies and revisit old ones. Yet, those are the first things to get crossed off my list when I'm "too busy" and always have been. This decade, I plan to be more calculated about keeping those things on the list. If I have many, many more decades to go, it'll probably be because of THAT ... plus I'll appreciate the memories and my loved ones benefit from my vibe. If I'm not so lucky with time, that's how I want to live anyway. Win win.



If you're still reading, why? This was such a ramble! Haha. J/k j/k. I appreciate you sharing in my thoughts here today.


Coming to you next week from my 5th decade ;-) ...


XO,
Tara



P.S. All the things we work on in TRANSFORM: Body + Mind and in TRANSFORM: 1:1 coaching are the things I do for myself when I talk about "nutrition, fitness, and lifestyle choices". Boosting our metabolism, achieving body composition goals, optimizing health, and aging healthfully aren't separate things. They are the same and require the same kind of protocols. It's what I help guide you through and it's exactly the same as I do and work on for myself. ;-)