Should you even weigh yourself?

Let’s talk about that little square of plastic on your bathroom floor.

It can ruin your mood, your breakfast, and your entire sense of self before your coffee has even finished brewing. One second you're feeling strong and proud, the next you're wondering if your body hates you and contemplating a juice cleanse you’d never actually do.


The scale.

Here’s the thing: the scale isn’t evil. It’s a tool. But it’s one of those tools that’s super easy to misuse, like tweezers under a magnifying mirror.

Personally, I don’t weigh myself regularly. Not because I’m afraid of the number or trying to avoid data, but because I just don’t find it very valuable. For me, it’s kind of bottom-of-the-barrel data. A distraction more than an insight. It doesn’t tell me anything meaningful about my strength, health, or energy that haven't already gathered from other places. So I don’t bother.

That said, I’m at a place in my journey where I could weigh myself consistently and be totally fine. Not because I’m immune to the old narratives, but because I’ve done a lot of deep work to unhook myself from the diet culture remnants that snuck in when I was young, impressionable, and convinced those 17 magazine models with their thigh gaps were "It".

But for a lot of women I work with, the issue isn’t the number. It’s the mental spiral that follows it. It’s how fast we abandon what’s working because the data didn’t instantly reward us.

So... who shouldn’t weigh themselves?

People who spiral after seeing a number.
People who cut back food out of panic.
People who weigh “just to check” and end up reworking their entire life plan at 7am.
People who feel defeated, derailed, or full of shame if it’s up half a pound.

Who should?


Maybe no one. But if you want to, I'd make sure you check off the following boxes first...

People who are curious, not reactive.
People who use the number as a breadcrumb, not the whole story.
People who understand that water, hormones, soreness, digestion, sodium, alcohol and sleep all impact the number.
People who are tracking other forms of progress and not putting all their worth in one metric.


Let me say that last one again: people who are tracking other forms of progress. If the scale is the same or up but your waist is down, muscles popping, energy is up, cravings are down and your A1c is looking better, you better NOT act like what you're doing isn't working. I mean, you can do what you want but don't bring that energy near me unless you want a major pep talk. 

If you do decide to track it, don’t let it be the only thing you track. I suggest weighing three times a week, first thing in the morning, and taking the weekly average. The daily ups and downs mean almost nothing in isolation. They’re noisy. We want trends, not tantrums.

Also... don’t weigh yourself on your period, after flying, after eating sushi, or when you already feel emotionally wobbly. You deserve better than that setup.

The scale can’t tell you:

If your clothes are fitting differently
If your metabolism is stronger
If your cravings are down
If your mood and energy are more stable
If you're preserving muscle and burning fat
If you're showing up in your life in a way that feels grounded and powerful

Those are the real wins. And they happen long before the scale ever catches on.

If you know the scale isn’t for you, here’s what I recommend tracking instead:

Progress photos
How your clothes feel
Strength gains (more reps, more weight, better form)
Meal consistency
Daily protein + fiber
Sleep, mood, energy, digestion
And my favorite... how often you’ve avoided spiraling after a “bad day” because you know how to get back on track

That’s what progress looks like. That’s what I coach on inside The Metabolic Edge.

Last week, I led a workshop called Becoming Her: The Psychology of Results. It wasn’t about motivation or willpower. It was about identity. About shifting into the version of you who already has the results, before the results show up. And I realized... some people just need to be in the room for the shift to happen.

Not everyone inside TME uses all the meal guides or completes every workout. Some don’t speak up in the group chats or catch every workshop. But they’re in the room. They’re surrounded by women going for what they’re going for. And something about that starts to unlock things. Quietly, powerfully.


You are the average of the 5 people / communities you surround yourself with.

So if you’ve been needing to stack wins, if you’ve felt stuck or stalled or unsure what to do next, maybe the first step isn’t doing more.

Maybe it’s just being in the room with us.

Tap here to join

You’re not meant to figure this all out alone. Let’s take the pressure off and start tracking what actually matters.

XO,
Tara

Working out, eating "clean", but your belly or arms won't budge?

Let’s talk about fat that feels stuck.


You’re eating "clean" (and in a very slight deficit). Hitting your steps. Lifting weights. Drinking your mineral water like it’s your job. You’re seeing changes in some places, but other areas are giving you radio silence.


The backs of your arms still feel rubbery. Your lower back / sides won’t budge. Your belly? Ugh, don’t even start.


And your brain spirals…


Is it hormones? Is your metabolism broken? Do you need to fast harder? Train more? Detox your soul?


But what if this isn’t about pushing harder? What if (in some cases) the issue isn’t about effort… it’s about access?


Now, pause. Because this is where we can so easily take a detour and start slapping a label on everything. Humans are funny like that ... we’d often rather believe something is "wrong" with our tissue than accept we need more time or consistency. So hear me loud and clear: Not all fat is fibrotic.


Not all slow-progress areas are a fascia emergency. And most of the time, a slight calorie deficit (no need to count), consistent lifting, proper sleep, and blood sugar balance WILL move the needle.


But for some of us, especially if you’ve had inflammation, trauma, hormonal chaos, chronic (like way more than most) stress, or lymph issues… that tissue may become physically bound up. That’s what we call fibrotic fat.


Think of it like this ... normally, fat is soft. It moves, it jiggles, it warms up with circulation. It’s a little metabolically active. But fibrotic fat gets tangled in stiff collagen fibers. It feels dense. Cool to the touch. Resistant to change. Like trying to burn a marshmallow that’s been stuffed inside a dry sponge. Not impossible. But you’ve got some un-packing to do first.


This has been really personal for me lately because I’m navigating lymphedema in one foot ... which has developed into fibrosis. And even though it’s not a typical fat-loss struggle, the protocols I use to soften and support that tissue overlap massively with what I’d use for someone with fibrotic fat from inflammation or estrogen dominance.


I’m not doing 57 things a day to deal with it. That would require a team and a nanny and probably an entirely different zip code. But I am doing a few of these each day ... and they’re making a huge difference in how my body feels, flows, and functions.


So let me give you the tour. Every day, I pull from this toolkit:


Walking
Infrared sauna
Strength training
Endurance cardio
HIIT
Hydration with minerals (I love this and this for higher sodium and this I use most for when I want less sodium)
Vibration plate
Castor oil on my foot and / or over my liver (I have a pack to put it on and tie it around me too)
Dandelion root tea (I open tea bags and steep in this instead of the bags)
Compression boots (these things help WAY more than I wish they did, haha, b/c I don't find them too pleasant but darn it, do they work!)
Sunshine
Grounding
Red light / infrared light on my foot and over liver (I also use for face, over thyroid, any area that needs special attention that day. I use it for every freaking thing. My whole family does. Full disclosure: I'm an affiliate for them)
Legs up on the wall
Open lymph drainage points
Dry brush
Manual fascia work (myself, have yet to get this done professionally)
Cupping
Rebounders are great too, but we are between them right now as our last got lost in the flood a few years back


None of this is “woo.” It’s deeply rooted in physiology. Once fascia becomes stiff, blood flow drops. Nutrients and oxygen can’t get in. Mitochondria can’t function. Detox slows. Hormones misfire. And your fat-loss plan suddenly feels like it’s bouncing off a brick wall (if it's fibrotic). Important to note: I added links where I could grab them but many of these tools are FREE or very low cost. No need to EVER feel like you need to buy something or won't be able to make progress without a purchase. NOT true.


So we wake the tissue up. We soften it. We bring flow back. Then and only then ... do our usual strategies start working again.


But here’s the question I always get next:


“How do I know if I actually have fibrotic fat?”


Glad you asked! ;-) I always recommend having the conversation with your healthcare providers, but to start to gather more info ...


1. The Pinch Test:
Pinch the area in question ... belly, back of arms, inner thigh. If it feels rubbery, dense, or like it barely separates from the muscle underneath, it could be fibrotic. Now pinch somewhere that’s almost never fibrotic (like your forearm or cheek). That’s your control group. Normal fat should feel soft and squishy. 

2. The Glide Test:
Can you gently glide the skin side-to-side over the muscle? Healthy fascia glides easily. Fibrotic tissue? Feels stuck. It doesn’t want to move. It's normal for the fat layer to be thicker in other areas! That's not what we're looking for. We're looking for adhesions here.



3. The Temp Test:
After a workout, sauna, or even just being warm… does that area stay noticeably cooler or pale compared to the rest of your body? Blood flow = heat. If it’s not warming up, it’s not circulating well.



4. The Bounce-Back Test:
Fat should feel like a marshmallow, not a dried-out sponge. If it feels firm, weirdly dry, or like it’s “locked in,” that might be fibrotic tissue.


5. Your History:
Chronic stress, years of yo-yo dieting, estrogen dominance, trauma (physical or emotional), low hydration, perimenopause, injury, inflammation, surgery ... these all increase your odds. If you check more than a few boxes here AND you’re also seeing signs above, it’s something to consider.



But remember, don’t go hunting for problems that aren’t there.



Fibrotic fat isn’t the default. It’s not an excuse for every slow area. It’s just something to know about if you feel like you’re doing everything and one zone still won’t play nice.


This is the kind of nuance we dive into in The Metabolic Edge. Because surface-level advice is everywhere. And it’s usually either “eat less, move more” or “detox your chakras and hope for the best.” I live in the middle. Where science meets strategy meets real life. We talk fascia, hormones, metabolism, mitochondria, nervous system health, nutrition, meals, workouts and how to actually get unstuck in a way that feels doable ... even with kids, a crazy schedule, lymphedema, or a trampoline-less life.


If you’re ready to stop guessing and start solving, I’d love to have you inside. Join us here.


And whether you do or don’t, remember this ...


Stuck doesn’t mean broken. Dense doesn’t mean doomed. And slow doesn’t mean it’s not working. Your body is paying attention. Now it’s your turn.


XO,
Tara

Are carbs helping or hijacking you?

Let’s talk about carbs ... not because you need to cut them, but because how much and when you include them can make or break your energy, cravings, mood, and metabolism.

Most of the women I work with feel better, stronger, and more in control once they figure out their personal carb sweet spot. And spoiler: it’s usually not “as little as possible.” But it IS often more than the low carb people are used to and less than the Standard American Diet people are used to.

When you eat meals that are too carb-heavy -- especially fast-digesting ones without enough protein, fat, or fiber to anchor them -- you spike your blood sugar fast. Then your body releases insulin to shuttle that sugar into your cells. But if it overshoots (which happens often), your blood sugar drops hard. And suddenly you’re exhausted, cranky, and craving more food… even if you just ate. That crash is what pulls you back to the pantry again and again.


When undereating carbs becomes your whole personality, you run the risk of energy crashes, hunger and fullness cues getting wonky, thyroid slowing down, sleep thrown off and worsened moods and anxiety.


So ... Goldilocks.

Most women feel best starting with around 25–35 grams of net carbs per meal (that’s total carbs minus fiber). It’s not about precision or counting everything. It’s about balance and just being informed about how to put together balanced meals without obsession.

Here’s what that might look like in real food:

• 1 medium sweet potato

• 1/2 - 3/4 cup cooked rice or quinoa

• 2 small corn tortillas

• ¾ cup cooked lentils or beans

• 1 banana or a small apple + some squash

• 2 slices of sourdough

• 1 cup cooked, unsweetened oatmeal

• A protein smoothie that includes 1 cup fruit
  
  

Some women do best with carbs at two meals a day instead of three -- especially during fat loss phases, post-menopausal or if they’re more sedentary or insulin resistant. Others need more if they’re lifting heavy, nursing, or rebuilding from burnout. It's very individualized! But this range? It’s a strong starting point for feeling more stable and less snacky all day long.

Inside The Metabolic Edge, every single recipe in the meal guides is built with this balance in mind. The carb load, the fiber, the protein, the fat -- it’s all designed to keep your blood sugar steady, your metabolism supported, and your energy more predictable. And I update the meals every month, so there’s always something new to try without overthinking it.

You don’t have to obsess over numbers. You don’t have to eliminate carbs. And you definitely don’t have to keep wondering why you’re tired, foggy, or reaching for snacks when you’re supposedly “eating healthy.”

This stuff matters. And when your meals are working with you instead of against you, everything else gets easier too.

XO,
Tara

5-4-3-2-1

Today’s note is a little different — a 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 format to give you exactly what you need:


5 go-to meals,
4 calming breaths,
3 root causes of fat gain (and how to flip them),
2 stanzas to remind you who you are,
and 1 place where it all comes together.


5: Emergency meals that save the day


Ever have one of those days where maybe you're low on groceries, time, patience or brain cells? And the last thing your body needs is you spiraling into a bag of stale pretzels and telling yourself you'll start over Monday. You don't wanna Doordash again. But you're not about to go Pinterest-perfect. Or chef-level. You can't even do exciting. Just fast. Familiar. And something you actually like enough to eat when your bandwidth is near zero.


Steal my "5 emergency meal" method:


I’ve always got five meals I can throw together on autopilot. They fit the PFF / PFF + intentional carb framework. I keep the ingredients stocked. They require minimal effort. And on a crazy or wildcard day where I might need breakfast, lunch AND dinner to be handled without a single extra decision, I can always rotate between these and know we're good to go.


Two of mine (I have ones for if I'm making a meal just for me and ones for when it's the family):

• A protein smoothie with ½ frozen banana, handful frozen strawberries, 2 scoops vanilla protein, basil seeds, water.

• Egg sandwich: 2 slices Unbun bread, hummus, 1 slice real American cheese, 1 scrambled egg, spinach or cucumber, tomato, sriracha.

Try it! Make your list. Know your list. Post it on the fridge if needed.


4: A breathing technique that’s basically magic


It’s called 4-7-8 breathing and it’s a nervous system game-changer.

• Inhale for 4

• Hold for 7

• Exhale slowly for 8

That’s it. Just a couple rounds and you’re signaling your body that it’s safe to shift into rest-and-digest. Great before meals. Great before sleep. Great before you throw your phone into a lake.


3: The trifecta of fat cell expansion


Want to grow your fat cells real big? Here’s the recipe:

• Excess calories

• Excess insulin

• Chronic inflammation

So... let’s reverse engineer. To lose fat (which means shrinking those cells), we want to:

• Avoid overeating (but not under-eat to the point of wrecking your metabolism)

• Keep blood sugar stable (hi, PFF)

• Lower chronic inflammation (movement, sleep, breath, food quality, reduce toxins, sunshine, grounding, all the things we chat about)

Simple. Not easy. But now you know.


2: Two stanzas for you.


This was inspired by another poem I wrote 2 weeks ago for someone very close to me. But this version ... this one is just for you.


For the woman who feels behind on her body, her goals,
Behind on the laundry, the dreams, the controls.
Behind on the bills and the papers + texts,
Behind on the workout she meant to do next.
Behind on her glow and her gut and her grace,
Behind on the patience she wore on her face
This is for her, the one still in stride,
Running a race where the start's deep inside.
She’s behind the smile on her daughter’s face,
Behind the hugs that still hold space.
Behind the safety, the didn't-happen fight,
Behind the choosing rest some nights.
Behind the no one ever sees,
Behind the strength in worn-out knees.
She may feel lost in what’s undone,
But she’s behind... like the roots are behind the sun.

She’s behind the backstop at his baseball game,
Behind the stage whispering, “You’ll be great.” (no shame)
Behind the counter, cooking with care,
Behind her desk, building more than they’re aware.
Behind that paycheck or a clean toilet bowl,
Behind RSVPs and the birthday scroll.
Behind the doctor’s calls, the gifts, the replies,
Spirit Week picks and the tears in her eyes.
She’s not behind. She’s right on time.
The future wide open, her goals still aligned.
The only behind that truly holds weight
Is the magic she’s behind ... not a minute too late.

1: One place that holds all your tools


One place where you don’t have to do this alone. If you want support with fat loss, metabolism, energy, blood sugar, workouts, hormones, or just life... The Metabolic Edge was built for you.


We’ve got:
✔️ All your workouts
✔️ All your meal guides
✔️ Your self-paced metabolism course
✔️ Monthly workshops, Q+As, and guest experts
✔️ And the kind of community that makes it all actually SUPER supportive + fun


It’s filled with women who are mostly in their 40s–60s sharing lazy girl meals, troubleshooting real life, celebrating wins, and hyping each other up.


And if you’re reading this thinking "This sounds like the place I didn’t know I needed"... 

This link was basically written with you in mind.


XO,
Tara

If I wanted to lose fat before Summer ....

Lately, I’ve been hearing a version of the same thing from a lot of women: “I’m not doing any more fad diets. I’m done.” Then immediately, “But also... it’s almost Summer and I kind of want to panic-cut everything.”

I get it. You want to feel leaner, tighter, and a little more like yourself when you're pulling clothes out of storage or thinking about swimsuits and photos and all the warm-weather things. You want RESULTS. But you also don’t want to be starving, stressed, or doing something that backfires as soon as real life kicks in again.


You've been there. You've done that.

So here’s what I’d do right now if I wanted to lose fat before summer ... quickly, but without tracking, without drugs, and without turning into a shell of a person.

First, I’d eat three actual, robust meals a day. Not six baby snacks. Not random bites. Just three meals, spaced about four to five hours apart, that are big enough to hold me over until the next one. Each meal would have a solid 35 to 45 grams of protein, some fat (10-20g), and a good amount of fiber (7-10g). Enough to keep blood sugar stable and my brain quiet between meals. I'd make sure the meals were colorful for a wide variety of micronutrients and have some fermented foods in there too. And for added satiety, I'd make sure the meal had enough VOLUME. So let's say I got my protein, fat and fiber in with 1 sandwich, I'd add a bunch of volume on the side with some additional raw or steamed veggies.

Next, I’d dial in my up carbs without cutting them too much. I’d focus on whole-food carbs that digest slowly and actually give me something back ... things like squash, root vegetables, lentils, and fruit. I’d eat those in at least 2 of my meals, maybe all 3 if I were really active or trying to heal my hypothryoidism or high cortisol. But I'd be sure to stick with what my body can use in each sitting without needing to store. So around 25-35g net carbs for me (and most women).


I’d stop eating after dinner, with 3 hours of fasting before bedtime and aim for a 12 to 14 hour overnight fast. Nothing extreme — just a simple rhythm that gives your body time to reset. It’s great for digestion, blood sugar, inflammation, and it supports longevity too. 

Then I’d lift 3 -4 times a week. Real strength training—two upper, two lower, or a few full-body sessions depending on frequency. The goal would be to challenge my muscles, protect my lean mass, and remind my metabolism that I’m here to build, not break down.

I’d also move more every day besides formal exercise. Walks. Errands. Extra flights of stairs. Pacing while I pretend to fold laundry. Dancing in the kitchen or between strength training sets. It all adds up. I wouldn’t obsess over a step number, but I’d be aware that daily movement is one of the quiet forces behind sustainable fat loss.

On the cravings front, I’d make sure I was actually eating enough at meals. Most cravings aren’t mysterious. They’re a sign that something earlier in the day didn’t quite hit the mark—blood sugar crash, under-eating, poor sleep, stress. When you give your body what it actually needs, it stops sending you emergency signals at 4 PM or 10 PM.

And, I’d protect my sleep like it mattered. In bed by 10. Cool, dark, boring room. No scrolling. Phone on airplane mode. Maybe some magnesium. Mouthtape. Done. Nothing will derail your energy, cravings, or hormones faster than poor sleep. Nothing will help you bounce back faster than fixing it.

None of this is fancy. It’s not sexy. But the results are! It works ... without the crash. When you give your body consistency, clarity, and enough fuel to feel safe, it responds. You can absolutely lose fat in the next several weeks this way and still feel like a functioning human while you do it.

This type of no BS strategy is exactly what me and the women inside The Metabolic Edge are focused on right now. No gimmicks. Just structure that works and support that actually helps you stick with it. If that’s what you need too, come join us! Even if you just try it out for a month -- I double dog dare you to dedicate the next full month (May 19th - June 19th) towards your goals so you walk into the new season feeling at home in your body.


XO,
Tara


P.S. Got this message from a member a few days ago. I definitely suggest taking some baseline pics now and again after 4-5 weeks inside The Metabolic Edge! You can even hide them in a hidden folder on your phone. No one needs to see them but you ... but the you in a month is going to be SO happy to have them.

Perimenopause and menopause is chaos -- but you’re not crazy

Don’t worry, I'm saving the April Fools jokes for Instagram and my family. I’d never prank you about peri or menopause. That stuff’s already chaotic enough.

Hormones going rogue? That’s real.
Waking up at 3am wondering if your metabolism ghosted you? Also real.
So today, no jokes ... just gold.

Let’s break down what’s actually happening in your body (and what you can do to take your power back). Perimenopause and menopause isn’t the problem. But it is revealing everything your hormones used to hide.

Let’s talk about the midlife health mystery no one prepared us for:
You wake up puffy.
You feel more anxious than usual.
Your jeans fit weird.
You’re snappy for no reason.
You can’t remember why you walked into a room, but you can remember that you’ve already had it with everyone.
So you go to the doctor.
You get bloodwork.
They tell you, “Your labs are normal. Maybe try meditation or weight loss?”
Cue internal screaming.



Perimenopause / menopause (the former I have personal experience with myself!) can feel like chaos. Perimenopause is that in-between hormonal zone where your body is shifting ... but not consistently. Estrogen is erratic. Progesterone is MIA. Some days you feel great. Other days you're crying into your sleepy time tea.


Meanwhile, your mitochondria are like: “Ma’am, are we doing cardio or collapsing?”
And the medical world? It’s kind of collectively like: “Huh. That’s weird.”


What’s actually happening with your hormones? (skip if it starts feeling like biology class)


Perimenopause = hormone chaos. Estrogen and progesterone don’t just drop ... they fluctuate wildly. You can go from normal levels to postmenopausal lows and back again… in the same week. That’s why some days you feel amazing, and others you feel like a puffy rage monster in a brain fog.


Progesterone drops first. It’s your calming, balancing hormone -- and when it goes, anxiety, irritability, sleep issues, and PMS-like symptoms take the wheel. This is often the first sign of perimenopause.


Estrogen becomes unpredictable. Sometimes too low (cue hot flashes, dryness, mood swings), sometimes too high (hello bloating, heavy periods, breast tenderness). The rollercoaster makes your brain and body feel very confused.


Testosterone quietly declines. It doesn’t crash like estrogen or progesterone,  but it steadily drops, which impacts muscle mass, libido, confidence, motivation, and strength. You may not notice it right away, but over time you feel… flatter. Less drive. Less “you.”


Menopause = hormone flatline. Once you’ve gone 12 months without a period, estrogen and progesterone reach consistently low levels. Your body can function without them,  but not optimally unless you support your system.


Post-menopause, your adrenal glands and fat tissue take over. They produce small amounts of estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone. But if you're stressed, inflamed, or depleted? That backup system gets overwhelmed fast. (This is one reason managing stress and building resilience becomes non-negotiable.)


I love analogies -- Think of estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone like a group of expert chefs running your body’s kitchen. In perimenopause, the chefs start showing up late, forgetting the recipes, and throwing cayenne into the pancake batter. In menopause, they retire ... and now the interns (your adrenals and fat cells) are trying to keep the restaurant open with half the ingredients and no supervision. It’s possible, but you’ll need better systems, smarter nutrition, and a lot more support.


Here’s the real plot twist:



Perimenopause and menopause are often blamed for too much (“It’s just your hormones. Good luck!”) AND not blamed for enough (“Your labs are fine. It’s probably stress or aging.”). But the truth is that yes, your hormones are shifting. But also… your youthful hormones were masking metabolic chaos for years:

Undereating.
Over-stressing.
Lack of muscle.
Blood sugar roller coasters.
Sleep deprivation.
Nutrient depletion.


And now? It’s all showing.


What’s actually happening to your mitochondria?


Estrogen drops → energy production drops
Estrogen helps your mitochondria function. With less of it, energy tanks and oxidative stress climbs.

Inflammation creeps in
Hormonal chaos = cellular inflammation = slow repair + slower metabolism

Insulin sensitivity tanks
Your cells stop responding well to carbs, and blood sugar management gets harder

You lose lean mass (and mitochondria with it)
Muscle = mitochondria. Muscle loss = lower metabolic capacity.

Cortisol spikes, but recovery lags
You’re more stressed, more easily depleted, and less resilient.

Sleep suffers → mitochondria suffer
Night wakings = poor recovery = higher inflammation

Your nutrient needs skyrocket
Your cells need more B vitamins, magnesium, antioxidants, protein, and co-factors ... just to function normally.



What actually helps (and what I teach + guide you through in The Metabolic Edge):

• Short, metabolism-supportive strength training

• Blood sugar balance with protein-forward, satisfying meals

• Nervous system regulation (real tools that work in mom-life and other life chaos)

• Strategic supplements that support mitochondrial + hormonal health

• Smarter recovery (because rest is now mandatory, not optional)

• Real-life strategies that work in 2025, not 1998

Cat's out of the bag. Coming soon: The Metabolic Edge



This is exactly why I created The Metabolic Edge -- my brand-new signature membership where we rebuild your metabolism, energy, and resilience from the root up.


It’s for women in. their 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond navigating perimenopause, menopause, body composition and / or health struggles who want real strength, better brain power, more joy, and less dreaming of naps


Doors open VERY SOON. Keep an eye out.
Because you’re not broken. You’re just out of cellular alignment ... and we can fix that.


Stay tuned. This is going to change everything.

XO,
Tara

What does your nervous system have to do with fat loss?

The real fat loss MVP

Ever wonder why some days you’re crushing your health goals and other days you’re staring at the pantry like it owes you answers? Turns out, your nervous system might be the culprit. Your body is like a thermostat, working overtime to keep everything balanced. But if your nervous system is stuck in “fight or flight” mode, that thermostat gets about as reliable as Wi-Fi in the middle of nowhere. Suddenly, fat loss is harder, sleep is a joke, and energy feels like a mythical creature.

The other morning, after dropping my daughter off somewhere, I was ready to come home and work out. Or so I thought. Instead of feeling pumped, my brain was hosting a nonstop to-do list rave and I felt like I’d already run a marathon -- except the only thing I’d sprinted for was coffee. So, before jumping into leg day, I decided to press pause and do some deep belly breathing. Picture me in my kitchen, mid-breath, while my son asked why I was “pretending to be a balloon.” A couple of minutes later, the fog lifted and I felt like a functional human again. My workout? Way better than it would have been. My mood? No longer resembling a stressed-out squirrel. I tapped into the breath ... the only function that's automatic, yet we can take conscious control of it anytime. It's like a bridge to our nervous system that we have access to 24/7.

When your body senses stress, your autonomic nervous system flips into survival mode. This is great if you’re being chased by a bear -- not so much when the “threat” is your inbox or something. Chronic stress cranks up cortisol, spikes blood sugar (even with no food on board), slows digestion, and tells your body, “Hey, let’s store some fat for that famine (that we’re definitely not in).” It also makes your metabolism as efficient as a floppy disk. (Am I aging myself?) But here’s the plot twist -- you can hack your nervous system to shift out of “fight or flight, freeze or fawn” and into “rest and digest, safe and social,” where your body actually wants to cooperate with you. And where fat is the preferred source to burn for fuel.

Enter your vagus nerve -- the MVP of calming your system. Stimulating it is like hitting the reset button on your brain and body. Start your morning with five slow, deep, nasal breaths with long exhales. Hum your favorite song while you cook. Sip warm tea and actually taste it instead of scrolling Instagram. If you’re feeling bold, finish your shower with 30 seconds of cold water. Yes, it’s awful at first, but so is the idea of living stressed forever. These all help build your resilience or tolerance to stress so that it's not so easy to slip into fight or flight as time goes on. This feels so much more calming but for those of you whole only care about things related to fat loss (I see you), you should know this is also a way to increase the amount of time you spend in fat-burning mode each day as well as the maximum fat burning potential you have each day.

Curious about the nuance about how this ties into fat loss, better energy, and finally feeling like the healthiest version of yourself? I’m diving deeper into this in my upcoming round of TRANSFORM: Body + Mind, starting soon. In fact, I've added a brand new learning module all about shifting your mindset forever (who ARE you with all that peace and hope?!) and nervous system regulation. I'm pretty sure it's the reason I have more returning TRANSFORMERS than usual for this round. That and the fact that returning TRANSFORMERS get 50% off. ;-)


Want a sneak peek? Hit reply and tell me your go-to stress-busting ritual. Bonus points if it’s gotten a funnier reaction than mine.



Tomorrow is the last day to sign up for this round. Only running this course 2 more times in 2025.



XO,
Tara

✉️ Write Your Future: A Letter to Tomorrow's You

A letter to your future self

It’s January 7th, 2025. Right now, you’re standing on the edge of possibility. The choices you make this month - this week - can shape the entire year ahead. Truth is, we don't need a January for that. It's true of every month. Every week. But we have the magic of a blank year ahead right now. So, let’s pause and imagine.

What if you could write a letter to the future you at the end of 2025? What would you want her (or him) to know? Let’s begin.



Dear Future Me,

I hope you’re proud of everything we’ve accomplished this year in 2025. It wasn’t about being perfect, it was about deciding to show up. I’m grateful we committed to:

• Prioritizing energy, strength, and clarity every single day.

• Fueling our body with food that made us feel unstoppable.

• Moving with purpose and loving the process.

• Finding time for laughter, connection, learning and rest.

This year, we didn’t wait for the perfect moment to start. We took action when things felt messy and busy, and we stayed consistent even when it wasn’t convenient. And you know what? It worked.

Thank you for taking the first step. It’s what changed everything.

Love,
The You Who Decided

Real talk:

Nine years ago, I found myself at a crossroads. I had just been told I was prediabetic while newly pregnant with our son. After years of infertility, undiagnosed PCOS, insulin resistance, and hypothyroidism, my body felt drained, weak, and far from what I knew it could be, despite working out and “eating healthy.”

That diagnosis was my turning point. I realized that waiting for someone else to give me permission or the perfect plan and time wasn’t an option. I bought a glucometer, started tracking my blood sugar, and made small changes like adjusting my breakfast to focus on protein and fiber, tweaking my workouts to include more strength training, and building from there.

The changes were gradual, but they built momentum. My energy improved. I felt less moody. My body started to respond, and my lab work reflected the progress I was making. Each small step reinforced my commitment, and before I knew it, I was living a life that felt aligned, energized, and strong. In my 40s now, I feel younger and more powerful than I did in my 20s or 30s. It's hard to describe what it feels like ... I'd say a lightness and electrifying buzzing, of sorts. I know in my heart that you deserve to feel it too.

That’s why I believe so deeply in taking the first step ... even when it feels imperfect. Because I’ve been there, and I’ve seen what’s possible.

Special Note for TRANSFORM Graduates:

For those of you in The After Party, I can’t wait to continue this journey together. This year, we’ll be diving even deeper with fresh tools, inspiration, guest speakers and guidance to take everything to the next level.

If you’re a TRANSFORM graduate but no longer in The After Party, reply to this email for a special link to rejoin. Trust me, you won’t want to miss what we’ve planned for 2025.

What would your letter say? Try this exercise out as a journal entry today and let me know how it goes. Tomorrow, the doors to TRANSFORM: Body + Mind officially open. If you’re ready to take that first step and make 2025 your strongest, healthiest, most vibrant year yet, I’d love to have you join me.

Your first step starts tomorrow - get ready!

With endless possibility,
Tara

5 unusual tips for fat loss now

So you wanna lose some excess body fat?

(If you don't want to "lose weight" or "tone up" at all, then you might wanna skip this one and come party with us again next week.)




The planners tell me they are wishing their Summer weight loss plan worked better ... or that the results stayed and many others have just about decided to give up on their goals until the New Year. Problem is, every 1200 calorie diet, Optavia, diet pills, daily bootcamp classes or endless treadmill time are all risk factors that unfortunately can lead to chronic disease and / or autoimmunity years and decades in the future ... plus weight loss resistance which is the exact opposite of what the goal was.



Luckily, we know more now and we can evolve our strategies accordingly (even though most people will be continuing to use misinformed and outdated tactics for way longer than I'd like to even imagine).



Fat loss happens best when we work within what we know to be optimal fat loss conditions. This means we're aiming to lose excess body fat but not more (not muscle mass or bone...) so it requires a specific pace. Go too fast and you're losing weight for sure, but not the kinda weight you want to be losing. Here are some tips:




1) Eat more at mealtimes. I know if you want to lose weight, you think a 350 calorie meal is superior to a 600 calorie meal. I'm not a fan of counting calories but to more easily paint this picture, stay with me here. If you eat the 350-calorie meals, 1 of 2 things will happen -- 1, you'll end up being so hungry later that night, on the weekend, on holidays, or vacations that you'll feel yourself losing control around food and overeating. Or if you're so darn stubborn and manage not to ever overeat, your metabolic rate will drop in order to compensate. This means your thyroid will probably become sluggish, you might feel colder, weak, fatigued, low libido, and you will begin gaining weight with much less calories than you used to. Your goal here is to eat meals big enough and balanced enough that they keep you nice and satiated for at least 4 hours.



2) Be mindful of blood sugar. Yes, energy in energy out matters for weight loss. Also true ... not all weight lost is the same. If you want to maximize FAT loss, you need to make sure you are not riding the blood sugar rollercoaster all day everyday. This means you eat protein, fat and fiber at every single meal. It means you keep carb intake moderate. It means you understand that it's best to not eat carbs alone (no bananas or coffee with sugar on your way out the door). It also means that you understand we have an upper limit to what we can use before it gets stored away as fat. Keep carbohydrate-containing meals to 25-35g net carbs if you're a woman (35-50g net carbs for most men). More than that and you'll likely be storing the extra as fat. A "healthy" acai bowl or green juice can often contain 50-100+ grams of carbs / sugar! "Healthy" can be deceiving. 



3) Pick up weights. Weightlifting burns more calories than cardio. "What Tara? I always heard it's the opposite!" Well yes, if you're looking at it in a short-sighted way. Cardio tends to burn more calories in that one exercise session compared to a similar length session of weightlifting. However, the extra calorie burn stops when you stop moving with cardio. Yet when you increase your muscle mass by strength training, your metabolic rate for THE ENTIRE DAY, NIGHT, AND EVEN REST DAYS is elevated. Keep your cardio in because you love your lungs and heart and being alive. But it's not a great exercise focus for fat loss goals. Strength training is.



4) Move your body. Walking isn't your exercise (unless you're walking at a pace that makes it hard to carry out a conversation), but hopefully it's still a part of your days! Yes, even as our days get shorter and colder. We need our exercise (cardio, strength) and then we need our active lifestyle too (walking, gardening, dancing, yoga, playing tag with the kids or grandkids, standing while watching that live music or game, carrying groceries in.) By making the non-exercise parts of your day more active, you will notice a WAY bigger boost in your metabolic rate. 



5) Daily sunshine and grounding. When we have excess body fat stored up in an amount that's more than optimal health levels and want to do something about that, we need to be thinking about improving our energy usage. We lose fat when we use it up. We use it up when better and more quickly when the batteries of our cells -- our mitochondria -- are abundant and in great working order. Heat and cold exposure help with this, so there are bonus tips. ;-P But also getting your skin to come in contact with the Earth everyday. Ideally for nice chunks of time as we're really evolved to be outdoors mostly, but anything is better than nothing! If you're currently inside all day, you can start by committing to 5 minutes outdoors, standing in the grass barefoot and go up from there. This "charges" your cell's batteries in a way that allows them to utilize more energy / fuel / food. Meaning, this will improve your metabolic health and help with fat loss efforts. If it's in the budget, you could consider getting a grounding bedsheet or grounding mat for some grounding benefits in your home / while you're in bed at night. Here are the ones we have. (You can use code GWTARA for 10% off). I still prioritize getting my bare feet on the Earth often, but getting a bonus 7+ hours of grounding while in bed / asleep is wonderful. No EMFs. Just plugs into the grounding port only (bottom hole) of any 3-prong electrical outlet.



And a bonus one that didn't make the list because it's not unusual is .... SLEEP. It's arguably the most important as it will influence all the rest.



Which of these are you already doing? Which will you be focusing on? Hope you found this helpful! Please note ... this is 1 tiny sliver of the types of things we discuss in much greater detail in my 28-day metabolism-boosting course, TRANSFORM: Body + Mind. The next round starts in January. If you're interested in learning more, check out the link and hop on the waitlist for any special offers and a discount code when the cart opens.



XO,
Tara



P.S. I've been working hard on something for you and it's almost ready! For those who are patiently waiting for the next round of TRANSFORM and want to get the ball rolling in the meantime or who have been looking for metabolic help on a smaller budget, stay tuned. I'll be sharing details soon! ;-)

Balancing meals for fat loss goals

I put a "Whatcha wanna talk about today?" question box up in my instagram stories last week.

Did you catch it? I like to do that sometimes because 1) it helps when I'm having a block in creativity and 2) I don't have to read minds when you actually tell me what you need my help with! Win win.




While I answered the questions up in stories there, this one question I decided to share in this newsletter so that I could really pull back the curtain and help in a better way than a 60-second story.



"Can you help us put together PFF meals?"




That was the question. My answer: yes! Let's do this.



If I've been visiting your inbox weekly for a while now, you know all about PFF + intentional carbs. Basically, what I find works best for most people most of the time is when all meals have appropriate amounts of protein, fat and fiber. Starchy carbs require a slightly different approach as not everyone thrives with them at every single meal. A sedentary person, for example, might find they do best with one PFF meal and 2 PFF + intentional carb meals per day.



We dive into this MUCH deeper in TRANSFORM: Body + Mind. This is week 3 for the current TRANSFORMERS and they're crushing it! Hop on the waitlist if you'd like to be notified of the next chance to join. I teach the science and give all the tools and guidance and then you get to decide how you want to eat, what you want to eat, how you want to move your body, etc. So while it isn't custom -- it's a group course -- I do teach about the variables and who might need more carbs and why, for example.



So let's say you get the whole PFF + intentional carb premise but you don't know how to actually make meals out of the various components? The optional meal plans and recipe collections in TRANSFORM: Body + Mind will be great resources for you! But I want to give you some of the basics NOW and FOR FREE while you may be waiting for the next round.


If you're creating a PFF meal, pick 1 thing from each the protein, fat and fiber categories below. If it's a PFF + intentional carb meal, add a carb on top of that. 


Here are a bunch of ideas for each category:


Protein
(One portion is 20-40g+ or about 4-5 oz of meat or fish)

• Chicken

• Turkey

• Beef

• Greek yogurt

• Cottage cheese

• Eqqs (1 full egg plus 1 cup egg whites)

• Salmon

• Shrimp

• Tuna

• Pork

• Deli meat

• Protein powder

• Edamame

• Tofu

• Tempeh

• Other meat or seafood

• 4 T nutritional yeast

Fat
(One portion is about 10g fat. Aim for 1-3 portions per meal, depending on goals)

• 1 T olive oil / avocado oil / coconut oil / butter / ghee / mayo

• 1 oz cheese

• 8-10 olives

• 1/4 cup nuts

• 2 T nut or seed butter

• 2 T seeds (chia, flax, hemp, sesame, pumpkin)

• 1/2 cup coconut milk

• 1-2 T heavy cream

• 1/2 medium avocado

Fiber
(One portion is at least 5g fiber)

• Spinach

• Arugula

• Lettuce

• Celery

• Carrots

• Cabbage

• Asparagus

• Brussels

• Broccoli

• Sprouts / microgreens

• Cauliflower

• Tomatoes

• Zucchini

• Mushrooms

• Onions

• Kale

• Bok choy

• Swiss chard

• Collard greens

• Green beans

• Cucumbers

• Bell peppers

• Other non-starchy veggies

• Acacia fiber

• 2 T chia / flax / basil seeds

Carbs
(One portion is 25-35g net carbs ... or about 1/2 - 3/4 cup -- cooked, if applicable. These options have fiber too! But they also count as an "intentional carb".)

• All fruit

• Beans

• Lentils

• Chickpea or lentil pasta

• Quinoa

• Corn

• Oatmeal

• Rice

• Peas

• Potatoes

• Sweet potatoes

• Beets

• Pumpkin

• Butternut squash

• High fiber crackers (like Mary's Gone Crackers)

• High fiber bread (1 slice)

Use this to comb through recipes or even take out and restaurant meals to make tweaks or make it really easy and just build your plate with this method. Hope you LOVE how you feel with more balanced, PFF-friendly meals!



XO,
Tara

If I wanted to lose excess body fat before the end of the year, here are 4 things I'd start right now

No one waits around until January 1st to set goals anymore, right?

I really love that we're embracing the fact that we can upgrade anything we want about ourselves at any time. With the holidays getting kicked off a week from today with Halloween, it's the perfect time of year to begin to make a change. It's empowering to go off script a bit plus you can make progress on your goals while reducing cravings ... which comes in very handy around your kids' Halloween haul, during Thanksgiving dessert or that Wednesday night holiday party in December.



I have no current fat loss goals but if I did, here are 4 things I'd start doing right away:

1. I'd skip the calorie obsession because it leads to overeating. When we pick meals based on them having a lower calorie count, we are not getting enough of the nutrients that actually turn off our hunger. Therefore, whether later that afternoon or night or a handful of days later on the weekend, we will end up overeating. Instead, I'd be ensuring that I was getting enough -- protein, fat and fiber -- at each meal. I'd want this to be at least 20-30g protein, 10-20g fat and 5-15g fiber per meal (3 meals a day ... maybe with an afternoon snack too). This would make me feel nice + satiated and stop the food obsession, cravings, endless hunger and overeating episodes that feel like a willpower issue but are really just a biological issue.

2. I'd make sure my workouts weren't non-existent, mostly cardio, random, or being phoned in. The way muscle mass helps us have so much more flexibility with our nutrition isn't being talked about enough! More muscle means better blood sugar balance, extra fat burning 24/7 (yes, even when being a sloth on the cough or sleeping), and a higher carbohydrate tolerance. More muscle improves both health and body composition goals. I'd do this by strength training 3-4 days a week, following a comprehensive plan that gets all muscle groups, repeating that same suite of workouts each week for 8-16 weeks or so (not randomly switching it up) and making sure the last few reps of each set feels hard to complete. And then I'd progressively overload by increasing something (reps, sets, resistance) over time. Cardio is great for health, but I would not prioritize that for fat loss goals.

3. I would indulge with intention. I wouldn't swear off any foods for fear of messing up my progress, but I would also have a serious convo with myself about the truth about my indulgences. Am I saying I don't indulge often but when I go out to eat I have a burger with both buns, fries, and a drink? Or some bread from the bread basket, pasta with my entree and a little dessert? Hot cocoa season is coming up. And cookies. And pie. How much alcohol am I drinking on the weekends? And weekdays? Do I indulge at every party, date night, event, holiday...? Once I had that hard convo with myself about my indulgences, I'd then make sure I kept my favorites in while reining things in a bit. It's not deprivation if you're choosing what you want most over what you want right now. It's just a choice and you get to make whichever one you want in each situation.

4. Movement. Knowing 15% (sometimes more!) of our metabolic rate is based on how much we're moving outside of workout time, I'd get creative about how to start moving more. Can I ask my employer for a standing desk or just doctor one up myself by stacking my laptop on a bunch of books? Can I take that call or meeting on a walk? Can I sit on the floor and stretch while watching TV instead of sinking into the couch? Can I plan to walk each morning or lunch break? And if the weather is bad, what's my backup plan? Maybe one of those walking pads or under-desk bikes? Can I plan some family fun on weekends that involves being active ... like a hike, playground games, or after dinner walk or bike ride with whoever wants to join? If fat loss was a goal, I'd definitely not skip out on this and make my metabolic rate 15% slower as a result.

What else? Well if you need some more help, you might be interested to know I'll be briefly opening up early enrollment for the January round of TRANSFORM: Body + Mind around Black Friday. This will come with early access so you will have the whole course and all the materials to be able to utilize all of it starting in November!



If you have some diagnoses you believe are making your fat loss goals trickier or could use some customization or extra accountability, 1:1 coaching might be more your flavor.



Oh and if fat loss isn't one of your goals, that list is still a great one if you "just" care about longevity and optimal health. ;-)



XO,
Tara

This ONE question changes everything!

Ever find it hard to know when to push forward vs. when to pull back with your health goals?

Some people are so determined to keep exercise in, they feel too guilty taking rest days or workout even when they have a fever or lung congestion.


Some people are all about feeling good in the moment that they seemingly choose whatever fits their mood. Don't feel like working out today? They don't. But then their moods aren't great on a whole and their goals are left unmet.


How do we take the best from each of these 2 opposites and allow it to propel us towards whatever health or body goals we have?


By continually asking ourselves ONE simple question.


Ready for it?


"What's ultimately best for me right now?"


That answer will never steer you wrong IF:
1) You understand enough about your physiology + metabolism to make that call and
2) You're honest with yourself


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will be to rest when you have a fever or got 2 hours of broken sleep last night ...because the baby.


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will mean you workout or at least go for a nice walk outside even when you're not in the mood or motivated because that choice will actually help with moods and motivation in the future.


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will usually be that you eat in a way that's balanced and nourishing for your body but sometimes will be that you enjoy some soul food simply for the taste, nostalgia, memory or experience.


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will tell you to go to bed at a decent time because one Netflix episode is better than 8 in a row as evidenced by the fact that less sleep makes you cranky, less patient with your kids, and dials up your cravings and hunger.


"What's ultimately best for me right now?" will not steer you wrong.


Try it on for size! I dare ya. ;-)


XO,
Tara


P.S. If you're ready for a change that you can't fail at and would like to work with me, here are a few options:


TRANSFORM: Body + Mind is my 28-day metabolism-boosting course. I recommend starting here for more people with fat loss, muscle-building or "toning up" goals. The next round (and last round of 2023) will be in September. Hop on the waitlist to reserve your spot as last September we filled up!


TRANSFORM: 1:1 is my newly revamped 1-on-1 coaching program and is best for those who have been through the 28-day course and are ready to take things up a notch or those who haven't completed the course but know themselves / their situation make it so 1-on-1 with lots of customization and accountability is really the better option. Spots are very limited but clients graduate out of their program fairly often, opening up new spots. Fill out the form and I'll be in touch to discuss if it's the right fit for you, how it works, and what future availability looks like.

Healthify My Summer: A Guide

We're going away soon.

Have you been following along up in Instagram stories? I've been sharing some BTS of my crazy ordering / packing / planning for this road trip. And as I've been doing that -- and getting excited about some other Summer fun we have planned like concerts, beach days, baseball games, BBQs, outdoor movies -- I decided to make a guide in case you have some of those things on the calendar for the rest of this Summer too.



Check out THIS GUIDE and then make it YOURS. Follow the suggestions that work for you and ignore the ones that don't. Summer is meant to be fun and we don't need to feel like garbage or slip away from our goals on the other side of those memories.



Summer on,
Tara





P.S. If you would like targeted help with your goals, fill out this 1:1 coaching interest form. I'll get back to you shortly to make sure we're a great fit to work together, chat more about what to expect, and let you know when my next available start date is.

5 Unusual Tips for Fat Loss NOW

So you wanna lose some excess body fat?

(If you don't want to "lose weight" or "tone up" at all, then you might wanna skip this one and come party with us again next week.)




Summer seems to be the time when the planners are wishing their weight loss plan worked better ... or that the results stayed and the procrastinators are ready to do some crazy sh*t just to feel a little more confident this season in their shorts. As such, Summer happens to be a time when a lot of metabolic damage is done. Every 1200 calorie diet, Optavia, diet pills, daily bootcamp classes or running are all risk factors that unfortunately can lead to chronic disease and / or autoimmunity years and decades in the future ... plus weight loss resistance which is the exact opposite of what the goal was.



Luckily, we know more now and we can evolve our strategies accordingly (even though most people will be continuing to use misinformed and outdated tactics for way longer than I'd like to even imagine).



Fat loss happens best when we work within what we know to be optimal fat loss conditions. This means we're aiming to lose excess body fat but not more (not muscle mass or bone...) so it requires a specific pace. Go too fast and you're losing weight for sure, but not the kinda weight you want to be losing. Here are some tips:




1) Eat more at mealtimes. I know if you want to lose weight, you think a 350 calorie meal is superior to a 600 calorie meal. I'm not a fan of counting calories but to more easily paint this picture, stay with me here. If you eat the 350-calorie meals, 1 of 2 things will happen -- 1, you'll end up being so hungry later that night, on the weekend, on holidays, or vacations that you'll feel yourself losing control around food and overeating. Or if you're so darn stubborn and manage not to ever overeat, your metabolic rate will drop in order to compensate. This means your thyroid will probably become sluggish, you might feel colder, weak, fatigued, low libido, and you will begin gaining weight with much less calories than you used to. Your goal here is to eat meals big enough and balanced enough that they keep you nice and satiated for at least 4 hours.



2) Be mindful of blood sugar. Yes, energy in energy out matters for weight loss. Also true ... not all weight lost is the same. If you want to maximize FAT loss, you need to make sure you are not riding the blood sugar rollercoaster all day everyday. This means you eat fat, fiber and protein at every single meal. It means you keep carb intake moderate. It means you understand that it's best to not eat carbs alone (no bananas or coffee with sugar on your way out the door). It also means that you understand we have an upper limit to what we can use before it gets stored away as fat. Keep carbohydrate-containing meals to 25-35g net carbs if you're a woman (35-50g net carbs for most men). More than that and you'll likely be storing the extra as fat. A "healthy" acai bowl or green juice can often contain 50-100+ grams of carbs / sugar! "Healthy" can be deceiving. 



3) Pick up weights. Weightlifting burns more calories than cardio. "What Tara? I always heard it's the opposite!" Well yes, if you're looking at it in a short-sighted way. Cardio tends to burn more calories in that one exercise session compared to a similar length session of weightlifting. However, the extra calorie burn stops when you stop moving with cardio. Yet when you increase your muscle mass by strength training, your metabolic rate for THE ENTIRE DAY, NIGHT, AND EVEN REST DAYS is elevated. Keep your cardio in because you love your lungs and heart and being alive. But it's not a great exercise focus for fat loss goals. Strength training is.



4) Move your body. Walking isn't your exercise, but hopefully it's a different part of your days! We need our exercise (cardio, strength) and then we need our active lifestyle too (walking, gardening, dancing, yoga, playing tag with the kids or grandkids, standing while watching that live music or game, carrying groceries in..) By making the non-exercise parts of your day more active, you will notice a WAY bigger boost in your metabolic rate. 



5) Daily sunshine and grounding. When we have excess body fat stored up in an amount that's more than optimal health levels and want to do something about that, we need to be thinking about improving our energy usage. We lose fat when we use it up. We use it up when better and more quickly when the batteries of our cells -- our mitochondria -- are abundant and in great working order. Heat and cold exposure help with this, so there's a bonus tip. ;-P But also getting your skin to come in contact with the Earth everyday. Ideally for nice chunks of time as we're really evolved to be outdoors mostly, but anything is better than nothing! If you're currently inside all day, you can start by committing to 5 minutes outdoors, standing in the grass barefoot and go up from there. This "charges" your cell's batteries in a way that allows them to utilize more energy / fuel / food. Meaning, this will improve your metabolic health and help with fat loss efforts.



And a bonus bonus one that didn't make the list because it's not unusual is .... SLEEP. It's arguably the mosts important as it will influence all the rest.



Which of these are you already doing? Which will you be focusing on? Hope you found this helpful! Please note ... this is 1 tiny sliver of the types of things we discuss in much greater detail in my 28-day metabolism-boosting course, TRANSFORM: Body + Mind. The next round starts in September. If you're interested in learning more, check out this link and hop on the waitlist for any special offers and a discount code when the cart opens.



XO,
Tara